Advice From Rita: First Dates

Small Gay World's resident drag queen, Rita Booke, loves giving advice. She tells us that she's always being approached for advice and her opinion, and sometimes we've noticed she even gives them without the invite. Today we asked Rita what do most guys do wrong on the first date.

Rita Booke: Honey, the worst mistake is always the first mistake, and that's the mistake that happens before the date even takes place. I don't know why guys always choose a coffee place, or go out to a restaurant when making a date with a cute guy. Why risk those inevitable pauses when there's nothing to talk about, or the awkwardness when the check comes.

Instead of some boring, unimaginative first date, take that handsome fella to a zoo, museum, botanical garden, or whatever! You'll continually be on the go, and seeing new things to discuss and talk about, which will also give you a better idea of how he thinks, and what he likes. If you time it right, your outing can wind down at mealtime, and if you're beginning to think he's the man of your dreams, then suggest going to dinner, where you'll have lots to talk about together. First dates are important, use them to share something you did together, then flaunt it.

If you'd like to ask Rita Booke a question or need advice, email Rita at mygayblog@gmail.com.

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